In Defense of the All Inclusive Resort Vacation
Generally speaking, I am not a fan of the all inclusive resort.
What’s not to love about all inclusive resorts?
I have no problem with beaches, pools, buffets and all the margaritas you can drink. I love aqua aerobic classes and cheesy nightly shows. So why do I usually turn my nose up at the all inclusive resort? Because I don’t think they’re real traveling. And yes, I acknowledge that this is my inner travel snob talking!
To me, traveling is discovering new places, trying new foods, seeing attractions, interacting with local people, learning more about the local culture and having genuine experiences in a new place. Most of that is hard to accomplish at the swim up bar of a resort. That’s not to say it’s impossible – you can always leave the resort, go into town and discover something new. But I think the problem is when people don’t. I know lots of people who don’t experience more of the world outside of their all inclusive resort.
So what changed?
My perspective! I still don’t think spending a week at an all inclusive resort is traveling. But, I do think it is a vacation. And those are sometimes not the same thing. In my opinion, a vacation is a break from your real life where you get to relax and recharge. On vacation you don’t have an itinerary and you’re not constantly on the move. It’s not always possible to fit in a lot of “vacation” time when you’re busy traveling through a new country. But an AI resort is all about the vacation!
Our trip to an all inclusive resort in Huatulco, Mexico
Colin and I just got back from a week at an all inclusive resort in Huatulco, Mexico. I was hesitant when this vacation opportunity first came up. I really didn’t want to spend money on a week at a resort. But the idea of ticking Mexico off my list (I can’t believe I hadn’t been to Mexico yet!) and spending time with my boyfriend in the sun, instead of alone in Snowcouver, sold me on it.
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And I’m super glad we went! Things have been a bit stressful in the last month or so preparing for our move, Colin’s mom selling the house and trying to fit my freelance work and new job opportunities in where I can. It was really nice to take a break from it all. I originally thought I would bring my laptop and just do my freelance work in Mexico. But I wanted to have an actual vacation. So I worked hard ahead of time and spoke with my editors so that I could have a full week off. I still did a bit of work but I was mainly in relaxation mode!
I loved our routine in Mexico: sleep in late, head to the Mexico restaurant for breakfast, meet Colin’s family on the beach, grab lunch, switch to the pool, shower up, go to dinner, and then enjoy some music or entertainment outside. We mixed things up with some aqua fitness classes and catching some of the nightly shows as well.
And we also did some non-resort activities. We took a cab into town one day and got to visit the local market, a church and a famous pizzeria. We also went on a snorkelling excursion, but I got seasick and came home early. And we did get to practice and use our Spanish, which was a really fun challenge. I loved using my limited language skills with the staff and learning new words en espanol! So we did get a dose of “travel” on our vacation.
So really no complaints about lying under beach umbrellas, dipping in the ocean, grazing the buffet (there were churros!), dancing to a DJ and drinking way too many margaritas. But now we’re back to real life: packing, cleaning and working. While I don’t miss the constant sunscreen application, I do miss the waves, drinks, sun and chill vibes that you might only be able to find at an all inclusive resort.
All inclusives are good in many ways…it helps you relax. So it is for a different kind of traveling experience. Not all may agree, but we definitely vote for taking one such vacation once in a while!
I really appreciated this article and feel the same way! I used to look down on all-inclusive resorts, knowing as I did so that it was definitely travel snobbery manifesting itself (“Those are for *tourists*… I’m a *traveler*!” ::hair flip::). I couldn’t understand why people would want to travel to another country and have an experience that was basically the USA + warmth + palm trees. Then, I started working a normal, 40-hour-a-week job instead of the seasonal work and full-time traveling I had been doing. I married my husband and we struggled to find quality time to spend together amidst our busy work lives. I turned 30. And my perspective changed a little.
For said 30th birthday, my husband planned a long weekend trip for the two of us to an all-inclusive resort in Punta Cana. Especially since we went into it with open eyes and realistic expectations about the experience we were going to have, we had a great time! I was still disappointed with the lack of Dominican culture present (no beans and rice anywhere, really?!) and challenged by some conflicting feelings about the pros and cons of such resorts, but I was also humbled and convicted about my arrogance. I can now acknowledge that choosing an all-inclusive resort is far from a damnable offense, especially for people who just need an easy way to get away for a relaxing vacation. (I think your “traveling” vs. “vacation” differentiation is very astute.) While I don’t think we’ll be heading for an extended all-inclusive stay anytime soon, there have been moments since we left where I have found myself dreaming of an easy tropical getaway.
Exactly! I totally feel the same way. I was definitely thinking I was a “better traveler” because I wasn’t an AI resort person. But resorts have their time and place. I agree that there are some problematic issues with resorts and I think even more issues if you base your view of the world on just having visited resorts, but they also have their merits.
Thank you so much for reading and commenting. I really appreciate it!